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Invisible Hero Tribute: To the Teachers, Educational Assistants, Administrators, and School Staff of Lethbridge & Area
The Invisible Heroes Behind Every School Day As another school year begins to draw to a close, we would like to pause and recognize a group of people whose work often happens quietly, behind the scenes, and without nearly enough appreciation. To every teacher, educational assistant, administrator, counsellor, librarian, custodian, office professional, bus driver, learning support worker, substitute teacher, therapist, lunch supervisor, and support staff member across Lethbrid

Brittany Molenaar
May 28


The Story of Lethbridge's First School
The history of education in Lethbridge is older than many people realize. Before there were large brick schools, buses, playgrounds, or even paved roads, a handful of children gathered in a tiny miner's cottage to learn their letters and arithmetic. Who Was Lethbridge's First Teacher? The distinction of Lethbridge's first teacher belongs to Edith Emma Coe. Edith Coe arrived in the young coal-mining settlement in 1885 and opened a private school in a miner's cottage. She had e

Brittany Molenaar
May 28


Invisible Heroes of Lethbridge: The People Behind Animal Rescue
Long before animal rescue became widely shared online through social media posts and adoption photos, ordinary people in Lethbridge were quietly stepping forward to help vulnerable animals in need. The Lethbridge & District Humane Society officially began in 1989 after local volunteers spent nearly a year organizing fundraising efforts, policies, and community support to create a safer, more humane future for abandoned and neglected animals in southern Alberta. Their mission

Brittany Molenaar
May 26


Exploring the Universe Together: Lethbridge’s Solar System Adventure for Families
There is something magical about watching a child look up at the night sky and realize, for the very first time, just how big the universe really is. In Lethbridge, that wonder has been transformed into something families can actually walk through, bike through, explore together, and experience as a community. The Lethbridge Solar System Model is one of the most creative educational projects in our city: a giant scaled model of our solar system spread across Lethbridge and su

Brittany Molenaar
May 18


Invisible Heroes: The Good Men Who Raised Me
When people hear me speak about The Invisible Woman, or read my poetry and essays critiquing rigid patriarchal systems, some assume that I must hate men. I do not. I love men. In fact, my life has been shaped by many invisible heroes: good men who helped raise me into the strong, sometimes awkward, deeply independent woman I became. I was not raised by a mother after the age of five. My mother struggled with addiction and other illnesses that kept her from being consistently

Brittany Molenaar
May 17


To the Invisible Mothers: Happy Mother’s Day
Mother’s Day has always been complicated for me. For some people, it is breakfast in bed, handmade cards, warm family dinners, and smiling photographs. For others, it is grief wrapped in flowers. It is silence where love should have been. It is a reminder of the people we lost, the love we longed for, or the appreciation we never received. For me, Mother’s Day is a reminder that I did not grow up with a mother. It is a reminder of many years spent trying to earn love that sho

Brittany Molenaar
May 10


When Being Seen Hurts: Faith, Judgment, and Becoming Light
An Invisible Me Reflection There is something deeply painful about trying to do good… and still feeling judged. Sometimes the hardest criticism does not come from strangers. Sometimes it comes from the very people you hoped would understand you best. Over the past while, I have felt judged, misunderstood, and at times even persecuted by members of my own faith community. I have felt criticized for my mistakes when I was struggling as a human being. Then, strangely enough, I h

Brittany Molenaar
May 7


Recognizing Acts of Kindness: A Guide to Appreciation
Kindness is a quiet force. It moves softly through our days, often unnoticed, yet it shapes the world around us. Sometimes, it is a smile from a stranger, a helping hand when we least expect it, or a word that lifts a heavy heart. I have learned that recognizing kindness is not just about seeing the act itself but feeling its ripple in the soul. It is about pausing, breathing, and saying, I see you. I appreciate you. In this guide, I want to walk with you through the gentle a

Brittany Molenaar
May 5


The Man Behind the Mystery
Invisible Spotlight: A Teacher Can Inspire The Future He wasn’t warm in the traditional sense. He was bald. Sarcastic. Dry. Sometimes cranky. Not exactly the “poster teacher” for connection. But here’s what people often miss: The ones who don’t perform warmth…sometimes practice it in the most meaningful ways. Mr. Quick was deeply analytical, wildly intelligent, and—beneath it all—quietly compassionate. And most importantly: He saw his students. The Moment That Changed Everyth

Brittany Molenaar
May 4


Canadian Community Blog: Canada's Community Spotlight - Stories That Inspire
There is something quietly powerful about stories that rise from the heart of a community. Stories that whisper of kindness, resilience, and the everyday heroes who walk among us. I find myself drawn to these narratives, to the gentle pulse of lives lived with purpose and care. In Canada, across towns and cities, these stories unfold—waiting to be told, waiting to be seen. Today, I want to share with you some of these stories. Stories that inspire, that remind us of the beaut

Brittany Molenaar
May 4


One Year of Showing Up: Moms Helping Moms
Invisible Me Spotlight One Year of Showing Up ✨🎉 This week marked something truly special—a first anniversary. 🎉✨ Not just a celebration of time…but of commitment, care, and community. 💛 A Year Built on Heart One year ago, something meaningful began. Not just a childcare space—but a place where: children feel safe families feel supported and community comes to life Through hard work, dedication, and endless love,this team has spent the past year doing something simple… and

Brittany Molenaar
May 3


The Ones Who Show Up: How Community Builds Safe Spaces for Our Kids
There’s a quiet kind of hero in our communities. They don’t wear uniforms.They don’t ask for recognition.Most people don’t even know their names. But every day—especially between 3:00 and 6:00 PM—they show up. And for hundreds of kids, that changes everything. The Space Between School and Home In cities like Lethbridge, that stretch of time after school can feel small… but it’s not. It’s the space where: Kids can feel alone Confidence can quietly slip Choices—good or bad—star

Brittany Molenaar
May 3


The Invisible Hero Who Helps a City Remember
Featuring: Belinda Crowson Some heroes don’t wear capes.Some don’t stand in the spotlight. Some… quietly shape the way an entire city understands itself. In Lethbridge, one of those heroes is Belinda Crowson. Where Leadership Meets Legacy Many in our community recognize Belinda as a public figure—someone who has stepped forward to serve, to lead, and to help guide decisions that impact everyday lives. But there is another side to her work that often goes unseen. A quieter sid

Brittany Molenaar
May 1


The Invisible Heroes Who Feed Our City
Honouring Lethbridge’s Food Banks There are places in our city that don’t make headlines. No spotlight. No applause. No standing ovations. And yet…They hold our community together in ways most people will never fully see. Places like the Lethbridge Food Bankand and the Interfaith Food Bank Society of Lethbridge. Where It Began In 1982, the Lethbridge Food Bank was founded with a simple but powerful purpose:to ensure that families in our community had access to healthy food wh

Brittany Molenaar
May 1


The Invisible Heroes Among Us: Lethbridge RCMP
Not all heroes stand in the spotlight.Some stand quietly on our streets—day and night—watching, protecting, responding… often without recognition. Here in Lethbridge, our story has always been one of resilience and community. Long before our city grew into what it is today, law enforcement in this region traces back to the North-West Mounted Police, who helped establish order near Fort Whoop-Up in the late 1800s. That legacy didn’t disappear: it evolved. Today, members of the

Brittany Molenaar
Apr 30


The Invisible Woman Series: A Call to Action for Every Child's Right to Read
In many homes across Lethbridge, something quietly heartbreaking is happening—books are becoming a luxury. Between rising rent, groceries, transportation, and basic needs, many families are forced to make impossible choices. While books may not seem urgent compared to food or shelter, their absence creates a deeper, long-term cost. This cost impacts literacy, education, and opportunity. But here’s the reality: Even in households where physical books are out of reach, most fam

Brittany Molenaar
Apr 25


The Invisible Strength of “Betty”
An Invisible Woman Series Feature There are some people in this world who don’t just walk through life—they shine through it. In order to protect this impecable woman, I will will call her "Betty," because "Betty" is one of those people. To those who know her, no explanation is needed. You already see it—the quiet strength, the unwavering love, the way she carries herself with grace even when life has asked more of her than it ever should have. And to those who don’t know her

Brittany Molenaar
Apr 15


Stories of Resilience: Inspirational Blog Stories from Invisible Women
There is a quiet strength in the stories we often do not hear. The stories of resilience, of kindness, of everyday courage that unfold in the shadows. I want to share with you these moments—moments that remind us all that being unseen does not mean being unimportant. It means there is a deeper story waiting to be told. You might find yourself in these stories. Or perhaps you know someone who lives them every day. These are the stories of invisible women—those who give without

Brittany Molenaar
Apr 13


The Invisible Hero Who Chose Us
Sometimes, the most life-changing moments don’t arrive with grand announcements or perfect timing.Sometimes… they show up quietly. Unexpectedly. Even a little inconveniently. In July, 2024, a man took a chance and added me on Facebook. To be honest, I wasn’t interested. I had already decided—quite firmly—that I would never again date another “Mormon guy.” I tried, politely, to brush him off. But then he said something that caught me completely off guard: “I’m 6’1… but I iden

Brittany Molenaar
Apr 8


Highlighting Kindness Through Purposeful Stories: Everyday Kindness Blog Stories
Kindness is a quiet force. It moves softly, often unnoticed, yet it shapes the world in profound ways. I have come to believe that stories—purposeful stories—are the vessels that carry kindness from one heart to another. They illuminate the unseen, the overlooked, the everyday heroes who make life better without fanfare. Today, I want to share with you how these stories, these everyday kindness blog stories, can transform how we see ourselves and each other. The Power of Ever

Brittany Molenaar
Apr 7
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